【Make the most of it ってどんな意味？】今日アメリカ人がオフィスで使った英語フレーズ１３個紹介

再生8,048万回 · リアクション37万件 | How to Raise an Independent Child with the Right Values | This short story narrows in on how to parent your child to true independence. Speaker: Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families | By RISE by Goalcast | As you've just heard my wife and I are the parents of six children if you look closely at the screen you'll also note something interesting about my family and that is that my six children are all daughters but this is Chanel with a couple of her friends in in our kitchen goofing off and Chanel's just turned 17 I was driving to work with her and I could tell as she drove that she was not happy it might have been the way that she revved through the six gears on her way to top speed in the sixty zone and and and she just wasn't happy and and I commented I said Chanel you seem like you're unhappy and she rolled her eyes and I said I get a sense that you're unhappy with me and she said yes dad I am and I said I'm so glad that you've told me that could you tell me why she said well sure today I found out that two weeks ago all of my friends had a party and they didn't invite me and I only just have found out about it today and when I asked them why they didn't invite me they said well because it was the kind of party that Doctor Justin Coulson wouldn't have approved of and for those of you for whom the penny didn't drop I'm Doctor Justin Coulson and and straight away I felt so bad for her I thought oh my goodness my my parenting is causing my daughter to be ostracized and isolated and to feel horrible to miss out on opportunities to be with the friends but do I want to have those opportunities and I looked at her and I said you know if I didn't invite you a party that I wouldn't approve of it sounds like there probably were a few things going on that are not consistent with our values was there alcohol being consumed and potentially misused she said yes I said were there other drugs being consumed and potentially misused she said almost certainly I said were people disappearing into rooms for intimate encounters that they may or may not regret the next day she said possibly I said well I'm really glad you weren't there and so I said do we need to revisit the rules she looked at me and said dad I know why we have the rules I've been part of the conversations remember okay I said I want to ask you a tough question you're nearly an adult you're a year and a bit of being an adult now I think these are good rules but do we need to rethink the rules and then I waited and my heart pounded and eventually she said dad I don't like the rules and my heart stopped and I said, and I started to think of how to respond and as I was thinking she jumped in and added something else for me she said right now dad I don't like the rules one little bit but they're good rules I think we should keep them this is the kind of line that every parent dreams of hearing from their kids the heavens open and the angels started singing and I just wanted to hug her I was like yes if if you paid attention to the story you don't get it by saying oh damn it they're good rules and I expect that you will keep them that's part of being in this family that's called control and that's not how we get to this point instead we get it through this thing called autonomy force creates resistance but great relationships build autonomy which allows us to leverage trust which builds massive influence thank oh